Hi , and welcome! I see you have been a member here since May of this year and, we appreciate your membership in our online community. We are glad to see you engaging now directly with the community through these two comments of yours.
I am sorry for the loss of your dad. Please accept my condolences at this time.
On another topic, I am disappointed to learn of the way some physicians have treated you. That should not be! Sadly, professional physicians are not to be judgmental with their patients.
Perhaps you will be able to seek out a physician who is more compassionate and understanding of this disease process and how it affects patients. I am glad to hear you plan on speaking with your current physician about the suggestions that has made (thanks, carlton!) Please do check back and let us know how the conversation turns out for you.
All the best,
Leon (site moderator COPD.net)