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I have copd caused by my husband smoking since 1985 ive tried to get him to stop smoking himself ive never smoked myself he also has copd has gone really thin he used to be overweight.
I dont have a cough at the moment my symptoms R breathlessness and servre fatigue,I have also broken my left leg going to the loo i lost my balance walking to the loo.
What can i do about my fatigue it stopping me from doing the cleaning i have no energy many health problems i only weighed 1lb 13oz when i was born in 62,I am finding it very hard to loose weight i think its very selfish of me being the recipient of me having copd because of his selfishness of smoking he promised me he was going to stop smoking when we got married never happened so i am suffering because of his selfishness.
Because of my many health problems i dont love him anymore he obvuiously dosnt care for me or he wouldnt have put me through passive smoking and made himself ill along with the same condition think he is at the end stage 4.
Ive asked him to help me clean but leaves everything to me.
I am having careres till my leg is better.
I cannot forgive him for the part he has played in my life as my life might end sooner my grandchildren will eventually be left with out myself eventually i would have loved to be around for them a lot longer if their grandad had never smoked.

Dolphin5005

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