Becoming invisible

I realize that the older we become, the more society, in general, ignores us. I guess we portray the mortality that people are uncomfortable with. I understand and was guilty of that fear in my youth. I don't take that generalization personally. BUT... when a family member or friend disappears me, it's different. Their ostracism I do take personally, though I try not. I have attempted communication with them but it's not working. So, I try to convince myself that their detachment is for the better,
as my passing won't be difficult for them. I'm sure others have or are having this situation and I am curious how they handle this.