Hi again! So, we can't recommend certain medications for your own safety. But in general, it's important to know that when it comes to anxiety medication, each person is different. What works for me might not work for you or you might need a different dose than someone else. It can take a little trial and error to find the right match. So the best thing to do is tell your doctor about how you're struggling and see what they would recommend. Also, your doctor will probably tell you this, but it can take a couple weeks for any side effects to pass and for the medication to start working, so it's helpful to know that in advance and to be patient while you wait to see how you respond.
Have you thought about trying talk therapy? Having a safe place to talk about your frustrations and fears, and learning some practical tips for what to do when you feel anxious, can make a huge difference. I cannot say enough how much good therapy has done in my own life.
My heart goes out to you for the emotions you are going through now that you need more oxygen. I think most people here have felt the same way! Please keep us up to date on what you decide to do and how you're feeling. We're here for you! Melissa, COPD team