If I had my way, I would never wear a bra again! Since gravity and age have taken that option away from me I have tried a couple of different things. Your best friend could be a bra extender that can add about 3 inches at the back of the bra without changing the way the cups fit in front. I found a bralette on Amazon that had removable cups and adjustable straps which I also use the extender on. The other thing I use is a very stretchy camisole that is a little tight everywhere so doesn’t feel like my lungs are being squashed. It also took me a long time to find options that work. Good luck and I will look forward to any more suggestions that may get posted. According to the posting rules, I don’t think I am allowed to send pics of anything.