I to struggle some days with everyday tasks. (Dishes, laundry, making the bed, walking to the mailbox and even bathing) can be difficult on bad days. (Example of my bad days are when my oxygen level is below my norm,im having tightness in my chest, short of breath and wheezing.) others that may also be going on along with the things I just mentioned is; swollen feet, ankles, face or legs. When I have these bad days my boyfriend of 13 yrs. knows and does these daily tasks. And when he doesn't, I pay my friend and she does it. Now tasks like.... sweeping, dusting and vacuuming; that will create particles in the air I breath, I pay others to do it for me 2x a wk. due to the fact he has asthma. When push comes to shove, I put me a mask on and do it myself, having to stop while doing it so as to catch my breath. There are even times I'm unable to cook because of the fumes it creates. (We have no vents, only a fan). we order out or he'll cook for us. Now I've never said he's ok with this. there are defiantly times he bucks. however, he's beginning to realize the seriousness of copd and helps out without an argument. Thank God Cuz I get short of breath arguing. Trust me your wife hates it and I'm sure she does the best she can.Be understanding and help. (get in where u fit in.or be perpared to pay someone).just saying