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We Tried For a Transplant

In the first few years after my mother’s COPD diagnosis, I spent countless hours researching the disease. The big thing that kept showing up was: “There is no cure.” Those words are so dark, aren’t they?

I did find a few blogs back then (around 1999) that were basically online journals. There was one in particular. It was a man with COPD. He had decided to pursue a transplant, and it was a success. I remember getting so excited about this idea. I talked to mom about it the next time that I saw her. However, she did not share my excitement.

When I was very little my mom had several surgeries that were almost as in depth as a transplant. She was cut completely open twice, and had a few other surgeries with shorter incisions. She was not excited about doing it all again. We talked about the advantages of a transplant, and we talked about the disadvantages.

Mom side-stepped the transplant talk for about eleven years. Her doctor had mentioned it several times through the years, but did not try to pressure her into it. It was 2009. She was in stage 4, and I had just experienced a miscarriage. I remember taking mom to the doctor, and she asked her if she was still possibly a candidate. I was so excited. I think her doctor was just as shocked as I was. Everything leading up to this moment had been pointing us away from a transplant.

Her doctor reviewed her case again, and decided that she still had a chance. She was on the edge of the the age cut off for Duke University, so we had to move quickly. (Duke no longer has an age limit, as long as you meet all of the other requirements.1) Her information was sent to the team, and while I was far away from home for work, she called to let me know that she had been denied. We were so disappointed.

A few months later, she received a letter in the mail from Duke. They had decided to review her case again, and she was accepted. Talk about a roller coaster of emotions!

At the consultation, we were given all of the reasons not to proceed. There were many different things that she would need to consider. The surgery itself is intense. The recovery process is nothing to take lightly, and the amount of medications that she would be on would be incredible. There is no guarantee that a transplant will work, and the medications needed to keep your body from rejecting the lung(s) may cause other problems.

They also explained the condition that she would need to be in before the surgery. There was a minimum that she would have to be able to walk. It was something like 1000 feet in 6 minutes, I think. She could do this with her oxygen turned up, so it was indeed doable. She was ready, and we were scheduled to return for the two week evaluation.

We learned about the financial commitment, and I began fund raising. I knew that nothing, so far, was out of reach. We could figure it out. We were getting more and more excited about the possibility that she might be able to breathe.

During week one, she completed more tests than I could possibly explain. It was incredible. During the second week, we spoke to the different doctors that would be in charge of her care, and each one was giving her a green light for the surgery. I cannot explain how excited we were.

Then on the last day of testing, the very last test revealed that mom had had multiple strokes. She was denied a transplant because they felt that she might not make it through the surgery. We knew that mom had a stroke when I was 14, and we had reported this to Duke. We did not know that she’d had multiple strokes.

We were definitely crushed. It was a very sad time, but after the dust settled from all of this, mom lived 5 more years. We will never know what her life might have been like with a transplant, but I can tell you that there is too much life to live to let disappointment keep you down. She pushed through it all and found ways to enjoy the two grandchildren and one great grandchild that were added to the family. If she could, she would tell you to keep living, no matter what life throws at you.

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  1. Duke University. Lung Transplant. Available at Accessed July 7, 2015.


  • 14pf14kmary
    4 years ago

    Yes I have a question about getting up mucus.this is about my husband he is one that produces a lot of stuff but for the last few days he’s not getting much out and the cough is different it sounds like glass breaking.the Dr.said it’s the emphysema cough but this came up last month after a lung

  • Tonya Hidalgo moderator author
    4 years ago

    I understand what you are talking about. Mom had a cough that was similar. I hadn’t thought of it as glass breaking, but at times, I think that would be an accurate description. It seemed to be more like that when her cough was really dry. There were also times that her cough would deplete all of her air. At the time that mom was going through this, there wasn’t very much that they were able to do, other than cough medicines. She was allergic to most of the medications that they could offer as a prescription. I would encourage you to continually call and visit the pulmonary specialist. His doctor needs to know that it is still happening, and make sure that you make the doctor aware if it is becoming unbearable or if it is keeping your husband from sleeping. There may be other options to try, including looking at anything your husband may be allergic to or adjusting medications.

    I hope that he finds relief. This was a major problem in my mom’s life for a while. It did get better for mom, but I know that it does not go away completely for everyone.

    Tonya (moderator)

  • Leon Lebowitz, BA, RRT moderator
    4 years ago

    Hi Mary and welcome! We hear you and that you requested help in handling your husband’s coughing issue and expelling the mucus. It sounds like the doctor has diagnosed your husband with COPD. As you both are probably aware, increased secretions that are often thick and difficult to cough out can be characteristic of emphysema and COPD.
    You may find this article on persistent cough and COPD to be helpful: As well, this next article specifically addresses the increase in mucus and changes in color that are symptomatic of COPD/emphysema:
    We’re glad you found our online community and look forward to your continued participation. Regards, Leon (site moderator)

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