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More Tips for Talking With Your Doctor.

More Tips for Talking With Your Doctor

Unfortunately, we must all accept that doctors in the U.S. today have very little time to spend with each patient. Changes in health insurance and electronic records have greatly changed how doctors and patients communicate with each other and with their patients.

It’s important to know the right questions to ask, which we reviewed in the first part of this article. But, there are a few other things you can do to talk effectively with your doctor.


1. Come prepared to each office visit. Take the time before you get there to think over and plan your questions and what you’ve been tracking and noticing (such as how you’re responding to treatment, any symptom patterns you’re noticing, your tracking records, etc.). Be sure to bring any information or paperwork you need with you.

2. Bring someone with you to serve as a recorder and advocate. It can be hard to absorb everything doctors say during a visit. This is especially true if they are in a hurry. Taking someone else with you, such as a spouse, parent or child, or even a friend, can make sure you get the information you need. Ask them to write things down to refer to once you get home. Plus, your companion can act as your advocate with the doctor, if you become overwhelmed.

3. Be open to other ways to interact. If you are not able to get your concerns all addressed in one visit, you could ask if you can schedule a follow-up visit. Most doctors will agree to this. Another option is to arrange for a follow-up phone call, either with the doctor or one of the other professionals in the office. You could even ask if you could email your doctor. Explore all your options.

4. Seek out other health care resources. We can’t deny that most doctors are overworked and short on time. But, it’s entirely possible that there are other members of your healthcare team who would be able or even better able to answer your questions and concerns. For example:

  • A respiratory therapist may be able to answer questions about inhaler technique or how to use your nebulizer or oxygen therapy.
  • Your pharmacist may be able to answer questions about how medications work and what side effects, if any, to watch out for.
  • A nutritionist can answer questions about healthy eating or how to lose weight, if needed.
  • A nurse, nurse practitioner or physician’s assistant on the doctor’s staff may be able explain different aspects of treatment, how to use/take your medications or even to provide some short-term counseling and support.

In Summary

Your health and your body are your responsibility, but you’ll have the best outcomes when you tap into the expertise of your whole health care team. So, learning how to communicate with your doctor and other professionals can make a huge difference in how well your COPD is controlled and your overall health and quality of life.

So, use these tips to be more proactive and to advocate for yourself. compiled a list of questions for the doctor. Take this document with you to your next appointment to remember important questions and to jot down notes!

Download the Printable Document

This article represents the opinions, thoughts, and experiences of the author; none of this content has been paid for by any advertiser. The team does not recommend or endorse any products or treatments discussed herein. Learn more about how we maintain editorial integrity here.

  1. Ha, J. F., & Longnecker, N. (2010). Doctor-Patient Communication: A Review. The Ochsner Journal, 10(1), 38–43.
  2. Renter, E. (2015). How to Talk So Your Doctor Will Listen. U.S. News & World Report. Accessed 1/23/18.
  3. National Library of Medicine. MedlinePlus. COPD flare-ups. Accessed 1/25/18.


  • WillDoe
    8 months ago

    Thank you Kathi, good article.
    I just saw my new pulmonologist yesterday, I need to have my throat looked at by an ENT doctor.
    The point that stuck out was to be prepared. I used to be able to remember what I wanted to ask my doctor, now it is better if I form up a check list.
    I still forgot to ask my pulmonologist what stage of COPD I’m in…

    Thanks again!

  • Kathi MacNaughton author
    8 months ago

    Thanks, Will… So glad you found the article useful! I think going with a checklist is a great idea. Doctors are often so rushed these days, and as a patient, we’re often overwhelmed or anxious. Having things written down really can help.

  • Lyn Harper, RRT moderator
    8 months ago

    Will – I hope it goes well at the ENT. Do you think the throat issue is related to COPD or something completely different?

    I also liked the idea of writing everything down so that you remember what to ask, or what the doctor said while you were there.

    Lyn (site moderator)

  • Leon Lebowitz, BA, RRT moderator
    8 months ago

    Will – you can’t do better than being prepared before you go to see the doctor with a list of questions. Invariably, everything we think we remember, somehow slips out of our head when it comes time to talk. Good luck with the ENT – please do check back and let us know how you’re doing.
    All the best, Leon (site moderator)

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