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Every Breath is Precious

I’ve come to realize that since my diagnosis of COPD every breath I take is precious. We take our lives and breathing for granted until something drastic happens and we realize how precious our lives are.

Life is for living

Now nearly three years on, I make the most of my life and the way I live. As we know, life is for living, but we’re reminded to look after ourselves. I’m all for making my life easier but also for being fitter and healthier.

We’re blessed here in the United Kingdom to have an NHS. I have all my medication at hand and have no worries about costs like in other countries. It’s not a brag – I’ve just come to realize how lucky I am. It must be so stressful not knowing how I will get my next prescription.

Home modifications

I’ve had help in the form of modifications to my seats and chairs. We have a walk-in shower with a chair and handrails. A toilet seat raiser and wheelchair (I cannot walk a distance). In return, I want to share my story and what I’ve learned since my diagnosis of COPD.

I fight to keep well

I fight to stay well and to keep active as possible. I am unable to walk outside much so I double up on other exercises. Squats (as far as my knees let me), wall presses, leg raises, star jacks, exercise bike, and rowing machine (when at the gym).

Make the most of your life

Life is precious, life is a gift. We need to use it to the best of our ability. Let’s support ourselves and others who have COPD. Encourage activity and set our own goals. Keep a diary of what you have achieved and look back to see how far you have come. It can be surprising to see how far you come in just a couple of weeks.

It is there for you to live

Make the most of your life in a positive way – it is there for you to live. We must not let COPD define us and rule our lives. We must live our lives every day. On the days that we cannot be as active, pick up a book and make it a relaxation day. Don’t dwell on the fact you cannot go out or cook a roast. Rather, do a puzzle or something you enjoy that won’t sap you of the little energy you have.

Grasp it with both hands

Don’t dwell on what you had, live with what you have. Yes, it’s a different life, but it is still a life and you’re still living (more than some). Never blame yourself for smoking or working in dust and fumes. It happened and it’s with us, live around it and make the most of what we have. We can’t really change it. If we live with the what-ifs or ‘I wish I hadn’t’ we will never get anywhere in life. Just stuck where we are, dwelling and only going backward. Life is too short on a good day, so grasp it with both hands and live your life to the best of your ability. Smile, laugh, and love. It’s a second chance and you don’t get many of them.

#thinkpositivebepositive
#thereslifeafteradiagnosis

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Comments

  • hilsheffield
    6 days ago

    I can really relate to everything that you’ve said here! Some days very much easier than others though and to keep positive is sometimes pretty hard and it is difficult not to look back and remember times when breathing was automatic!

  • Barbara Moore moderator
    6 days ago

    Thank you for commenting hilsheffield,
    We are so happy that this article resonated with you. Thank you also, for saying so. Barbara Moore (site moderator)

  • Susan1006
    1 week ago

    Deb – You have such good ideas.
    I read somewhere that stress does not come from whatever is going on, it comes from our attitude towards whatever is going on.

  • Barbara Moore moderator
    4 days ago

    Hi Susan1006, You couldn’t be more correct with that statement. Once we learn to react with positivity, stress falls off of us. Barbara Moore (site moderator)

  • Debz Borge moderator author
    1 week ago

    Hi Susan1006 thank you for sharing your thoughts with us, I agree with you it’s a lot on how we react to things. Debz (Site Moderator)

  • Leon Lebowitz, BA, RRT moderator
    1 week ago

    Hi again, Susan1006, and thanks for commenting on Debz’ article. I’m sure she will be gratified to read your comment.
    All the best,
    Leon (site moderator)

  • Janet Plank moderator
    1 week ago

    Debz, what a wonderful message that you shared. It is such an inspiration!
    Janet (site moderator)

  • Debz Borge moderator author
    1 week ago

    Janet Plank thank you for your comment and sharing your thoughts with us. Debz (Site Moderator)

  • Barbara Moore moderator
    1 week ago

    Excellent article Debz. We can’t hear it enough. Barbara Moore (site moderator)

  • Debz Borge moderator author
    1 week ago

    Barbara Moore I’m glad you enjoyed the article, thank you for letting us know. Debz (Site Moderator)

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